a mommy moment

My Braxton blogs so far have been him being a bit mischievous. He's not always like that. One of my favorite moments with him was quite tender. Our day didn't necessarily start that way. We were having a hard time being on the same page about many of the day's tasks. He didn't want to follow through with all of my requests (which soon became demands) and I wasn't going to negotiate the way he wanted me to. The day was coming to a close and in all my frustrations I just wanted to finish the nightly routine. Notice the word used was finish. My goal literally at that point wasn't to enjoy my two and a half year old son; it was to get him in bed and shut the door. Shame on me! Eventually after the bath, pajamas, teeth brushing, scripture reading, and prayers we were there. I turned on his primary song cd and patted his back. We gave hug and kisses to finish the night. I was eager just to sit as I was mentally exhausted. Not long after our final goodnights had been said I heard a sobbing come from his room. Of course I went in to check on him and was surprised at what had caused the emotions. When I had asked what was wrong, he said "I heard a mommy song but there was no mommy here to sing it to me." (referring to Mother, I Love You) His love for me and the forgiveness that he had for my stubborness just melted my heart. Kids are here to teach us sometimes!

Song lyrics:Mother I love you; mother I do. Father in Heaven has sent me to you.When I am near you, I love to hear you singing so softly that you love me too. Mother, I love you; I love you, I do.Mother I love you; mother I do. I want to help you because I love you. I want to mind you. I want to find you happy and smiling because I love you. Mother. I love you; I love you, I do.

December 16, 2008